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[January, 26th 10:12am] |
so many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservatism, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. the very basic core of a man's living spirit is his passion for adventure. the joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. but once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty. pg 56-57
avoidance behavior is a response designed to protect the infant from behavioral disorganization. if we transfer this concept to adult life, we can see that an avoidant infant might very well develop into a person whose principal need was to find some kind of meaning and order in life which was not entirely, or even chiefly, dependent upon interpersonal relationships. pg. 61
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[January, 23rd 6:59pm] |
i think people go one of two ways in college: -get heavy into drugs/alcohol -get heavy into religion
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[October, 23rd 7:12pm] |
definitly snowed today.
flurries are expected by saturday! sweetness
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[September, 26th 10:15pm] |
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people are avoiding me. people are specifically not talking to me. people are purposely avoiding me.
it makes me feel lonely and worthless. when will they stop?
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[May, 8th 12:14am] |
recommend good books to me fiction (i really like those thriller/mystery novels but i will go for anything) or non-fiction.. doesn't matter it's summer time and i need to catch up on all of my reading since i don't have anytime during the school year
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